For most things, I am able to say: "This isn't my first rodeo."
As I have experienced many decades of life, I have written my thoughts about life and all that goes with it. I pass some of those on to you now. Hopefully, some of them will influence you.
Start with this one and then ponder the others:
Humans have three time periods in their lives: Past, Future & Present (Now) . The ‘Past” is best for prediction and obituaries; The Future can be lot of fun if you can manage your anxieties over it; The Present or “Now” is the Best!